Friday, October 23, 2009

theshapeofamother.com

ok i went on this site and it freaked me out looking at post partum bellies! i guess it's a sad thing, but now that i think about it, i am not used to those bellies at all. i used to think that as long as women worked out and ate well, their stomach would look decent afterwards. But even the teenage moms (who have the best elasticity) have really distorted stomachs. I mean, OBVIOUSLY, they would given that they had another HUMAN in their belly for almost a year but i didn't think of it. i just thought a person could do a lot of situps or something and it would be good. If im a woman and acting shocked at these pics, then imagine how guys feel...i feel so bad thinking of a husband, already tired of his wife being preg for months, and then he sees the post-preg body and he's disappointed...arghh...im gonna try to show my hubby pics like this in advance so he doesn't have inflated expectations.

a 17 yr old girl: http://theshapeofamother.com/blog/a-mothers-body-at-a-young-age-anonymous/

a lady with 4 kids: http://theshapeofamother.com/blog/my-body-is-wrecked-elizabeth/

22 yo mom with twin boys: http://theshapeofamother.com/blog/22-years-old-three-beautiful-kids-andree/

sz 0 to 5 no stretchmarks but pooch http://theshapeofamother.com/blog/from-size-0-to-5-nancy/

A NICE BOD POST PARTUM http://theshapeofamother.com/blog/update-3-months-after-delivering-a-baby-boy-anonymous/comment-page-1/#comment-15624

anyway if i have a kid, i don't care if i gain weight bc his health is more important than my looks. plus i don't like those obsessive scrawny moms. but i would feel bad if hubby was grossed out by a stretchmark or something.

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